it’s friday! hug stuff
it’s friday! hug stuff
Which moment from this week’s episode made Kristian Bruun seethe with jealousy?
"It’s so funny that they had Patrick J. Adams do a cameo, because he was such a huge fan of the show in season 1 and he would tweet about it constantly. I would never have guessed that of all the clones he’d end up with, it would be Helena. I wouldn’t have guessed that he’d be a white trash dude with a “Jesse’s Towing” cap and then he’d hook up with Helena. That’s so funny. And she’s there trying every drink, telling people she’s on vacation, and she’s kicking ass in a bar fight."
"With them, it’s ‘go team’ all the way."
Wouldn’t you love to see a buddy cop movie starring Helena and Art?
In which Kristian Bruun and I make up plots of ’80s cop movies for Helena and Art, and discuss Tatiana Maslaney’s sex scenes at length.
The fact is, a 14-year-old girl may be capable of agreeing to sex with a 49-year-old man, but she doesn’t have the emotional and mental maturity to consent. I was 25 before I realized that every man I’d slept with as a teenager was a pedophile. It seemed to me that since I’d courted the attention, that I was fully culpable. What teenager believes she is not mentally or emotionally capable of full consent? I thought I was an adult, although when I look at the picture of myself from the time period above, I see a child.
I thought I was the exception for these men, the girl so precocious and advanced that it superseded social norms. I thought that I was “older than my chronological age.”
It never occurred to me as a young sexually active teen that the adult men I had relationships with may have been manipulating me, that they had designs and motives I couldn’t see from my limited child’s perspective.
Everyone should read this article if they haven’t already. The anecdotes are upsetting and carry major TW (pedophilia, graphic depictions of sex), but the message is just so on point.
What I needed, and what she needed, were strong male role models in my life who knew how the fuck to say “No thanks” to a little girl’s come-ons. Because it doesn’t matter if a young girl is saying yes, it’s an adult man’s job to say no.
Super interesting, important. I remember not feeling like a real woman until grown men commented sexually on the way I looked. And I was 14/15. And that shit is fucked up.
This past Saturday, Michael Sam became the first openly gay football player to be drafted in the NFL. As any young talented football player would do after finding out they made it to a NFL team, he celebrated after hearing this news. ESPN showed him kissing his significant other.
What does this week’s episode of “Orphan Black” have in common with Rob Ford?
Time for Kristian Bruun to recap this week’s episode!
Dear Abby, 7 May 2014:DEAR ABBY: I’m the happily married mother of two teenage boys. The other day I overheard my older son (age 17) talking with a friend about “twerking.” I have never heard of it and now I’m worried. Is twerking a drug term? Is it similar to “tripping,” “getting high” or…